What made you decide to live alone?
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2025.7.6 What's the reason behind your anger?
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What’s something you used to tolerate but now refuse to accept?
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2025.7.3 I think I made the right choice
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2025.7.1 Alone, but Free
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What is something you did that made you feel free for the very first time?
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When was the first time you said no to your parents?
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When was the first time you said no to your parents?
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2025.6.26 I took my power back
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What’s something you’ve stopped trying to explain because nobody listens?
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What body-related beliefs were you taught growing up, and how are you starting to let them go?
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2025.6.24 My first dress
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What’s one thing you thought was your fault, but later realized it wasn’t?
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2025.6.19 I didn’t do anything wrong
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What did the flying monkeys do that hurt you the most?
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2025.6.18 I realized my father's selfishness
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2025.6.17 further cutting ties with my family
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When was the first time you said "no"—and meant it?
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If you could talk to your childhood self, what would you say to help her feel safe and heal?
This is a subreddit for people who are actively trying to be more of an adult. It can include tips, victories, and questions.
2025.6.15 I said no to my mother again
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What did your parents do that left you with wounds you're still carrying?
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2025.6.13 They say that when an INFJ wears a mask for too long, they forget who they really are.
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Who would you be without the mask?
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