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2025.7.6 What's the reason behind your anger?

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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What’s something you used to tolerate but now refuse to accept?

AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all women can comfortably and candidly share their responses in a non-judgmental space. As part of our commitment to that mission, the AskWomen subreddit is curated to promote respectful and on-topic discussions, and not serve as a debate subreddit.

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2025.7.3 I think I made the right choice

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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2025.7.1 Alone, but Free

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What is something you did that made you feel free for the very first time?

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When was the first time you said no to your parents?

This is still a new community where we're trying to frame the discussion of a very overlooked part of the human condition: childhood emotional neglect by primary caregivers. Help us get things started by contributing your thoughts and inviting others to join.

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When was the first time you said no to your parents?

This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.

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2025.6.26 I took my power back

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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What’s something you’ve stopped trying to explain because nobody listens?

AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all women can comfortably and candidly share their responses in a non-judgmental space. As part of our commitment to that mission, the AskWomen subreddit is curated to promote respectful and on-topic discussions, and not serve as a debate subreddit.

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What body-related beliefs were you taught growing up, and how are you starting to let them go?

AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all women can comfortably and candidly share their responses in a non-judgmental space. As part of our commitment to that mission, the AskWomen subreddit is curated to promote respectful and on-topic discussions, and not serve as a debate subreddit.

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2025.6.24 My first dress

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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What’s one thing you thought was your fault, but later realized it wasn’t?

AskWomen: A subreddit dedicated to asking women questions about their thoughts, lives, and experiences; providing a place where all women can comfortably and candidly share their responses in a non-judgmental space. As part of our commitment to that mission, the AskWomen subreddit is curated to promote respectful and on-topic discussions, and not serve as a debate subreddit.

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2025.6.19 I didn’t do anything wrong

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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What did the flying monkeys do that hurt you the most?

This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.

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2025.6.18 I realized my father's selfishness

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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2025.6.17 further cutting ties with my family

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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When was the first time you said "no"—and meant it?

This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs. Significant others and friends are all welcome.

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If you could talk to your childhood self, what would you say to help her feel safe and heal?

This is a subreddit for people who are actively trying to be more of an adult. It can include tips, victories, and questions.

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2025.6.15 I said no to my mother again

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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What did your parents do that left you with wounds you're still carrying?

A subreddit dedicated to the celebration, exploration, and discussion of life in all its forms. Whether you’re sharing your personal journey, pondering life’s big questions, or just looking to connect with others who are navigating similar paths, r/Life is here for you. It’s a place to reflect, find inspiration, and join a supportive community where every story matters. Come as you are—let’s explore life together.

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2025.6.13 They say that when an INFJ wears a mask for too long, they forget who they really are.

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.

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Who would you be without the mask?

For redditors identifying as or interested in INFJs (Ni-Fe-Ti-Se) as described by MBTI.

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I don’t like that I always feel behind in life

rI_DONT_LIKE is a cozy corner for sharing those things that make you go, "Hmm... not for me!" Here, we invite you to share not just what you don’t like, but the stories and feelings behind it. This isn’t a place for venting or arguing; it’s about gentle exploration and understanding. We celebrate diverse opinions and want you to feel safe expressing yours. We hope you can find resonance in r/I_DONT_LIKE and gain new insights from others’ perspectives! 💖

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What are things you can’t do because of your OCD?

A subreddit dedicated to discussion, articles, and support regarding OCD. Please read below for more information and resources about about OCD and the subreddit.

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2025.6.10 When did you start becoming someone you're not?

Welcome to r/TheBigGirlDiary, a gentle space for writing your truth and becoming your real self. Big Girl means the part of you that wants to break free from old expectations and live honestly. Here, we share our stories of struggle, growth, and small victories. It’s a warm, safe place where kindness and understanding help us heal together. No matter where you’re at, you’re welcome to be exactly who you are.