Male OBGYN, suck it up or call and change?

I just set up my first trimester appointments at a new hospital. Something is going on at my regular OB office where they're booked out through May and I'd be 6 months along til they can see me at all. I called around a bunch and finally got in somewhere. I told them that I'd really rather have a female OBGYN and was told that's fine. I get the notification today to create a login for their office's chart, I do, and notice they booked me with a male OB. I already took my hours off at work in order to make it to these appointments and now feel I have to look like an idiot to my boss who obviously doesn't know yet, or suck it up even though it makes me uneasy their office would do this after I requested them not to. Should I keep calling around and see if I can get booked somewhere else? I feel like my trust for this place has already gone down the toilet, and I have a lot of past trauma that makes me want to just run away from this whole situation. Help :(