“Easy” baby

I do not have an easy baby. I make sure he has what he needs and I am always there making him seem good. I hate that my parents call my son an “easy” baby just because he is quiet and non-fussy around them. Like yeah of course he isn’t screaming because I fed him for 30 min and changed his diaper like 3 times because he shits in tidal waves. I have flat nipples and feed him with a shield, my nipples are less flat but he’s so freaking squirmy sometimes that he can’t find it because he won’t calm down and I have to use the shield. He is not an easy baby when he’s screaming cause of gas/indigestion. He is 3 weeks old.