Why are age gaps in relationships so normalized here??

Ive seen so many atrocious age gaps like 18 and 28, 18+ and minors and so on. How can anyone 18+ look at a 14yo and think of them that way? Anyone 18 and below is a literal child (you might think u are mature, but as you grow older u will know just how much of a child u were) so its just crazy to me. The maturity gap between those ages are huge

And everyone is hell bent on defending it too hello?? Your 25yo bf is a weirdo for dating a 15yo yes, cus what does he see in a child. So is the 18yo dating a 13yo. Ultimately when something happens its always the girl’s fault too, the kanmathi aunties will shame the girl to no end and leave out the grown ass man.

And also children shouldn’t be getting into relationships at such a young age, especially with older, more mature and experienced people. So much can go wrong and it’ll affect the future of the child in a bad way. Yes good for you that your age gap relationship worked out, but its still wrong