paying attention to how you look everyday

my roommates pick their outfits, do their make ups every day, have skin routines every night and every morning. but me, I do not even put on mascara. I don’t even wash my face at night. I only brush my teeth. those things they seem like so much effort to me even though i know feeling pretty feels amazing. I envy them because I would also like to be feminine like that and have the motivation to spend time on my beauty and pay attention to how I look every day.

Anybody feel similar things and what are your tips?