I think every guy should read this

I have noticed this alot, especially in Teenage relationships. It is often that the girl suddenly pulls away, gets distant, and then guys get all overthinky and paranoid, I saw this advice and thought every guy who has ever experienced this should read it..........Here it is.

What you are doing wrong is pretty much showing her how overly insecure and overly serious you are about her.

All those things about "i don't want to pressure you" "did i do something wrong?" "have you thought about us?" "i noticed you text me less now" That's all the problem right there. That's what amplifies her loss of interest.

The girl is getting suffocated with your constant need of validation, as it's ironically pressuring her even if you tell her you don't wanna pressure her, because you are coming across as needy or clingy, which is off putting specially if she is not at that level of investment yet with you yet.

In other words, your level of investment is bigger than hera at this point, and since you are showing doubts that ms causing her to realise more and more that she is not feeling that way with you causing her to pull away further and further the more you seek clarification or validation.

You are the one that's ruining it by wanting things to be clear, and getting impatient or nervous by the lack of clarity or certainty in the relationship. And i get it that you want to know where you stand but

unfortunately, you are coming across as needy and overly invested and while she might have had initial interest to exploder where things go, your desperation not know where you stand now is giving her second thoughts.

**EDIT***-    All this post meant was that if someone is pulling away from the relationship you should have atleast self respect to not chase them around when they cant even put in the bare minimum 

AND AGAIN THIS MAY NOT BE FOR RELATIONSHIPS WHICH ARE PAST THE HONEYMOON PHASE

Most teenage relationships end after the honeymoon phase cause one of them pulls away and the othed starts to chase them not knowing what to do and therefore is absorbed in self doubt.

THAT IS ALL THIS POST ADDRESS