Just for the record…

For all of those people that wander here, thinking we who are happy and single, are full of advice for people who don’t want to be single, think again.

Being happy and single means that we are single, having made that choice being of sound mind, overflowing hearts, and mindfully, sometimes spiritually, with deep contentment. It’s a choice. A lifestyle choice.

Quite a few of us in ever growing numbers, have found by choice that going life’s journey solo is an absolutely natural, normal and chosen state of being.

We aren’t men, haters, or women, haters oral grievances towards the world, feeling we’ve been sentenced to a life of singlehood without choice, or by fate. To the contrary!

Ever growing numbers of people in the world are finding that path of being single, is a happy one, and extremely fulfilling.

My last relationship was a lot of fun. We didn’t stay together for many reasons and it wasn’t to be. I’m OK with that, and I’m kind of secretly glad that it didn’t work out. I really love being single. If you aren’t happy single, go find somebody. lol You can’t take the chance of happening upon a really great person who is kind and compassionate if you don’t play the game. Roll the dice!

I really love my single life, my independence, my freedom, and my vast opportunities at getting to know, have relationships with and spend time with a lot of people. Maybe that selfish, maybe it’s not. I do know that it’s given me more opportunities and adventures all over the world that I wouldn’t have had, if I had chosen to exclusively focus, my energies on one single person.

I’m extremely grateful for being born during this period of time. I look at women from older generations in an outside of my family who didn’t have these choices. I think my lucky stars I do.