I hate the “equal rights equal fights” mentality

Allah made us equal in value, but different with different roles. I just hate how this Western mentality has found its way into the minds of some Muslim men. Like I ask for basic respect and to treat me like a human being and then when they have to do something that men are designed to do to because men are biologically stronger it’s- “what happened to equality???” It’s like they think asking for my Islamic rights as a woman makes me a feminist??