Just want to vent 31F

Hey I am 31F married to 32M, it was an arranged marriage lasting 3years. Unfortunately it was a loveless marriage and due to compatibility issues and other various reasons, we are now separated.

I thought since we cleared there was no abuse or infidelity in our marriage we can graciously part ways by going for mutual divorce without any alimony. My husband said he felt the same and wanted a divorce. I have no idea what happened after that conversation.

My MIL called my relatives and said something which made them question if I had an affair. I was shattered, I made it clear long back that I never had an affair or anything to my husband and he assured me that he never doubted.

Why can't Indian society accept compatibility as an issue? I came across a podcast where the speaker said "Indian men cheat to stay in the marriage and women cheat to get out of it". I used to think all this is bulls**t but may be it's true and women cheat so that society even though will blame her but the marriage will be over.

I might be wrong but such accusations hurt alot. Sorry for cribbing.. I just wanted to vent it out somewhere for my sanity.