Lynette is annoying asf

I know a lot of people hate tom but personally for me Lynette is a much more frustrating character. I see everyone always talking about how terrible tom is and how Lynette is this poor victim but I highly disagree. Tom sucks for his man child behaviour and constant mid life crisis but , Lynette NEVER set any boundaries with him. Throughout the show Lynette’s frustrations have been a consequence of her own decisions. She is always complaining and frustrated with her kids but somehow she is always pregnant . She always talked about how she missed her career in advertising but suddenly decided to quit for a pizza place she never wanted in first place . It made no sense for her to quit her high paying job only to whine later when she saw Bree getting successful. She is basically that friend that always cribs but never does anything to change her life .