As someone with cPTSD, what is the number 1 thing that you need/want from your partner? (Regardless of whether they give it to you or not)

Specially if you’re a female with a male partner who doesn’t suffer from PTSD himself.

If you don’t mind, you can mention both: What you need the most and indeed get, and what you need the most but don’t really get.

Edit: Feel free to mention more than one thing if you find them almost nearly as important.