Is it ok to end a friendship because of this?

So, this happened recently, and I’m still kind of upset about it.

I (25F), my boyfriend (26M), and a friend (24F), whom I’ve known for about four months, went to IKEA together. When we got to checkout, it was pretty crowded except for the self-checkout area, so we decided to go there. I took the scanner, and my friend helped me scan the items while my boyfriend just stood there doing nothing.

Once we finished, we paid and were about to leave when an employee stopped us near the exit. Apparently, his job was to double-check self-checkout purchases. He counted our items, and it turned out we had missed scanning one. Another employee came over, and they checked what was missing. We had, in fact, forgotten to scan one thing.

The employee turned to me and said that normally, I’d be getting a report filed against me for shoplifting, but since the value was low, I’d just get a warning. That’s when my friend started questioning him in a really rude and inappropriate way, asking what kind of dumb job that was and why he was even standing there. He explained, twice, why his role was important, but she wouldn’t let it go.

Then, the employee suddenly changed his mind and said that I would be reported after all. My friend immediately backtracked and was like, Oh, I’m sorry! but the damage was done. I told her that her apology wasn’t helping and that she should just stop talking.

Meanwhile, my boyfriend still hadn’t said a single word but ended up paying for the forgotten item. The employee then decided I wouldn’t get reported but still had to have my ID copied.

Now, here’s what really upsets me: Neither my boyfriend nor my friend spoke up to say that we were all responsible. They just let me take the fall. To me, this is about integrity and loyalty. I was left to deal with it alone when we all made the mistake together. It’s not even about whether I got reported or not. I fully agree that stealing is wrong, even if it’s accidental. That’s not the issue.

Because of this, I no longer want to continue my friendship with this person.