For couples with a younger female of 10+yrs

I’ve really been struggling with aging and not in the mortality way. I’m noticing my outlooks are changing and my physical attributes are aging. I feel disgusting and I can’t recognize myself. Do a lot of women feel like they’re aging out of their partners desires? And men do you notice these changes in your wife and does it distance you from any kind of emotional or physical attraction? I’ve vented to my hubby time and time again about my struggle(in a nicer way of course) and it makes him a little irritable the more I say it. Thought maybe I could get some insight on here,for worse or for better I suppose.

Edit:I mean 10+ gap in age. Sorry for any confusion.