Any men find it hard to connect with other ABCD men if you’re not into sports?

My hobbies are either intellectual or involve partying. I have a tendon injury so I can’t do any physical activity a part from some exercises at the gym and walking.

Most men I know including ABCD men connect over sports. They either play in sports leagues, online bet, watch NBA/F1/EPL or do martial arts. Golf, bouldering, tennis etc.

As I get older sport is the only way to make male friends. I feel so out of the loop when you add the fact I don’t video game at all.

Pop culture male talk flies over my head with the Donkic thing. All my mates play sports or video game and I’ve found it really hard to maintain or build friendships if you don’t do activities. I am not a loner by any means but the only way I have spent time with my friends are over some drinks or the occasional music festival which people lose interest in as they get older so its basically a crutch at this point.